Monday, August 3, 2009

I came downstairs and my two twin brothers started hitting and punching me so I took my shoe and threw it at..

them and missed and hit the wall and it got dented and discolored who is wrong in this situation? ITS NOT FAIR THERE JUST ALLOWED TO HIT ME AND PUNCH ME AND MY MOM DOES NOTHING TO STOP THEM EVER! AND THERE OLDER THATS THE UNFAIR PART!

I came downstairs and my two twin brothers started hitting and punching me so I took my shoe and threw it at..
They were, but I would have advised you to walk back upstairs. You also didn't say WHY they started that. Maybe it was just playing.
Reply:If you really feel it's unfair sit down with your mother, just the two of you, and CALMLY talk to her about the situation. Don't yell or get upset, just get your thoughts sorted and talk to her about it. Tell her how it makes you feel, apologize for what you did wrong and explain your actions. Your mom will probably have more repsect for you for it, and maybe you'll feel better with a bit of an explanation.
Reply:Deal with it.
Reply:Maybe your mom hates you. Sorry.
Reply:First I couldn't log on with the address you gave me I had to go searching through everything I can't believe I actually found you. I understand that you are upset and I dealt with the same kinda stuff growing up with my older brother. I got into trouble for everything I'm the one that got spanked and grounded. When I was young there was nothing I could do about it. I have a question though Do you have a good relationship with your father. Well the reason why I ask that is I was daddys little girl and through the years my Mom hated it and she was actually jealous as stupid as it was that was what her problem was. For about 1 year my Dad and I weren't as close and my Mom and I had the best relationship ever this is when I realized what her problem was. Why don't you try sitting down with your Mom and explaining how you feel. It never worked for me but it may work for you and even if it doesn't work at least she will see that this is bothering you. Let her know that you feel that you are always the one in trouble and that she may not be being being fair to you sometimes. Maybe you can offer to help fix the wall It really won't be that hard and ask her if you do help it and maybe help around the house if she would maybe let this one slide because your brothers were hitting you and stuff and you were just trying to defend yourself. When I was younger my Mom took me to see a councelor and on one of the sessions she called my Mom in and said that if she seen one more bruise on me that she was gonna call Social Services. You need to make your Mom understand that you are suffering abuse at the hands of youjr brothers and you can't deal with it anymore! I hope this helps you some and I hope it gets better nobody deserves to live in a situation like that. I know because I also did and just because they are you brothers it's still abuse!


Good luck sweetie I hope this helps



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